How to Cope When Life Gets in the Way

How to Cope When Life Gets in the Way

How To Cope When Life Gets in the Way-

Life Gets In the Way Sometimes

The second week of January was filled with distractions, cause you know, life gets in the way, sometimes. We packed up our apartment in Knoxville and gave up our lease. A difficult decision to make, I am so relieved to have all of my belongings in one central location, to live, really live, in one house. During the process, John was having dental procedures finished, I launched my new website Artrepreneur Outliner, and we discovered halfway through packing we would need to leave our RV in Tennessee until spring. Leaving the RV meant we needed to reconfigure our packing and only take what would fit in an SUV. So, not all my belonging are together yet, but soon. It was a bittersweet drive back to Tubac. Hard to leave the family we enjoyed so much time with over the holidays, but anxious to get back into a routine.

Needless to say, my painting time was cut a little short. I did, however, complete these three little studies.

Week two recap of the #30in30paintingchallenge!

Setting Alternative Goals

This time when life got in my way I set an alternative goal. Unable to paint on the road with all my supplies packed deep below the clothes in the SUV. I had planned to supplement with sketching in the car as we rode across the country since the goal of the #30 in30 painting challenge is to create every day for 30 days.  Since Sadie found my lap to be her favorite spot in the car, that never happened. Sometimes life gets in the way.

I really want to make sketching part of my daily practice, though I find it easy to put it on the back burner and let the day slip away without one single sketch. Listening to podcasts is one of the ways I stay motivated and inspired. It’s something I cherish about my drives to and from CrossFit, my 5 am workout. This time John listened along, preferring the interviews which Eric Rhodes conducts with artists on the Plein Air Podcast, it was really fun to hear his insights. Three episodes in a row that we listened to, stated,  sketching as being the number one thing you can do to improve your painting. Using thumbnail sketches for composition, drawing skills are key to the successful rendering of the subject and it is a way of seeing through an artist’s eyes. The three interviews I highly recommend Charlie Hunter, Jim Wodark, and Stephanie Birdsall.

Setting Priorities

On our second day home I had a bit of a breakdown. I hadn’t accomplished much for the #30 in 30 painting challenge, my blog had been neglected, and I wanted to visit with my friends, enjoy the sunshine in the Arizona sky, my easel was calling me, we had no food in the house, a huge stack of mail to address, bills that needed paying and I couldn’t even start a load of laundry because I couldn’t open the drawer with the detergent for the moving boxes stacked in the way.

An overwhelming feeling of the things that need to be done, the things I want to get done, and the time I wish I could invent, crippled me.  John sat me down and said, “OK…What all are you trying to accomplish

  • What has to be done right away?
  • What are the things preventing you from completing these tasks
  • What can I do to help you?

Just the act of stating everything out loud that was rushing through my head gave me more clarity. Paying attention to the dates for deadlines and activities really made the priorities have an obvious order.

Voicing the things that were in my way, in this case quite literally, help me make a plan of action, set some things aside and make quick actionable steps for the others. Knowing that he was willing to help, was the final step in eliminating the paralyzing mind freeze I was experiencing. Delegating, and letting go of the responsibilities that he was capable of accomplishing was such a relief.

Setting Your Intentions

My intentions for the next few days clear, I crawled into bed early, for a good nights rest. The next morning I woke up with a plan of attack and a fresh free mind to tackle the molehill that looked like a mountain the day before.

We’ve only been home 4 days but I have been able to nearly completed two paintings. I am painting for a couple of juried show deadlines so I’m thrilled to be back in my garage studio, with the incredible light open spaces like the southwest brings. I’ve sold a painting. Written this and another blog post, opened a door for my Artrepreneur Outliner project in my community. Spent some much needed time with my wonderful friends and family.  I completed a 10 module training course, in which I am very excited about, but you’ll have to wait for an announcement to share in my excitement.. I happily cooked healthy dinners in my wonderful kitchen, thanks to my sweet husband’s generous offer to run the many errands that accompany a return home after 12 weeks.

Next Time How Will You, Cope When Life Gets in the Way?

My hope is that you’ll stop and really look at what’s most important, and give those things priority. From that list of priorities create a timeline and strategy to accomplish these goals. Enlist the help of others, whether that’s a loved one who volunteers or a service you can hire, delegate. Lastly, give yourself a break if the closet is a mess for a few days it will be okay, if you can’t participate in every activity that comes your way, they’ll be another time.

For me, I’ll create every day I am able to physically walk into my studio, and not stress about the days that other things take priority.


In other news, I’ll be teaching a beginners’ oil painting workshop in a couple weeks. Tubac Art Academy will be hosting the three-day event. Structured for beginners’ the class will focus on the basic of oil painting. Breaking down the fundamentals of oil painting into manageable blocks. Students will learn about surfaces, brushes, mediums, palette and easels types, paint mixing, drawing with paint, values (light/dark), composition and color theory. When and how to use the tools of the trade.

If you or someone you know has been contemplating adding a creative practice to your life, this class will truly be a benefit to your pursuit. Oil paints are lustrous, rich and juicy, the gold standard of mediums throughout the history of art. They can also be intimidating, with their many pigments, oils, varnishes, turpentine, and brushes. Students will receive individual attention at every step along the way, leaving with a basic knowledge of the materials and techniques used in oil painting as well a completed painting or two.

A Loose and Bold Approach to Oil Paintng a beginners 3 day Workshop Held in Historic Tubac, AZ learn more at

Week One 2017 30 in 30 Painting Challenge

Week One 2017 30 in 30 Painting Challenge

Week One 2017 30 in 30 Painting Challenge

Recap of Week One January 2017 30 in 30 painting challenge

I recently took an online course with Dreama Tolle Perry. Her process incorporates a technique which is new to me, and I love it! Using only transparent colors in the underpainting and finishing Alla Prima her art has become iconic for her use of joyful color.  I highly recommend her online course. Following her process has brought a new depth of color to my artwork.

This week’s work has brought me much joy! I am currently painting in the dining room of our apartment in Knoxville, TN. Not my dream studio space although the light on a sunny day is quite wonderful. Unfortunately, yesterday’s snow was the first sunny day of the week. The dreary weather and constant construction just outside the apartment have made being joyful a bit of a struggle. I am ready to be back in my desert studio in Arizona. The juicy colors have brought a ray of sunshine to the space!

This is my third attempt at a #30in30paintingchallenge! I am more organized than the last go around, thanks to my #30in30 Artrepreneur Outliner kit for Evernote.  We are however moving out of the apartment and traveling across the country, yet again, in the motorhome, this month. That week may need to be about drawing, rather than pulling out the oil painting materials, sketching is an area I need to concentrate on anyways!. Those wonderful little thumbnails I see so many plein air painters begin with just don’t come naturally to me.

Come February, I am teaching an oil painting class for beginners at The Tubac Art Academy. This is the reason you’ll see some duplicates of the same subjects in my daily paintings this month. I am narrowing down my choices of subject matter I’ll use in the demonstrations. The Rockin Red and Desert blossoms, for example, are from the same reference photo. I am looking for a subject with dynamic color combinations and a simple organic subject, which will appeal to many. Any suggestions would be welcomed!!

A Loose and Bold Approach to Oil Paintng a beginners 3 day Workshop Held in Historic Tubac, AZ learn more at



Offa’s Dyke Painting Auction, #30paintingsin30daysAuction

Offa’s Dyke Painting Auction, #30paintingsin30daysAuction

Beginning in October, the 18 paintings I completed in the September #30paintingsin30days! will be up for auction to the highest bidder.

The paintings were inspired by a recent trip along Offa’s Dyke path following the borders of Wales and England from the south coast to the northern coast of Wales.

This means there’s a great opportunity for collectors to either add to their collection, or perhaps get started collecting. I’m offering these small painting on an art auction website,  it easy to bid and easy to pay through PayPal .

#11 #30in30paintingchallenge! purple-mtn-cliff-walk


We interrupt this Regularly Scheduled Content

We interrupt this Regularly Scheduled Content

Stealthily Disguised Bobcat, lesliemillerfineart.comUplifting to my Soul

We interrupt this Regularly Scheduled Content for some exciting art opportunities! When I signed up to participate in the #30in30paintingchallenge, I had no idea how many fantastic opportunities  were going to present themselves this month! Several shows and competitions I would really like to enter have deadlines  the first week of October. I am going to need to reroute my path, just a bit, but I am still committed to painting every day for the month of September. 
Returning to the artist mecca that is the little village of Tubac has been very uplifting to my soul. I’ve been reminded how important art is to the lives of others. I have also been exposed to so many new avenues to expose my art, including new shows, exhibits, associations, and general participation in the art scene.
When I sat down to do a little personal business and organize my Evernote folders today, it occurred to me how much there is to do!
Have you been wondering what happened? No posts for ten days there is so much to accomplish in September so much that I intended to post this a week ago and never hit publish!

Why the rules of #30in30paintingchallenge! Rule!

First off you need to know there are no rules. There is no such thing as cheating. So, if you want to paint seven paintings in a day and take the rest of the week off then that’s ok! If you want to get an early start in August then that’s ok too. Just don’t post an old painting as the whole point of the challenge is to get you to paint more! –Leslie Saeta-founder of the #30in30paintingchallenge.
No rules! These are my kind of rules!

Choose your Battles

The pressure I have put on myself is beginning to take it’s toll. I am learning that having a messy house, not having dinners planned and neglecting my family is not conducive to open creativity.
I am a firm believer in choosing your battles. Life is complicated enough without fighting the universe. The goals I set for myself at the beginning of this year  are very high on my priority list. To reach those goals, I feel it is necessary to switch my focus for the next few days. There are six painting submission deadlines scheduled on for the first week of October. Luckily for me, there were three pieces near completion hanging in my studio when I arrived back home.
It is important to me to finish what I have started for two reasons: because I announced my theme and intentions to do so publicly and because I feel the subject is so very deserving of 30 paintings. The number one goal for me in choosing to participate was to renew my painting practice after being away from the easel for nearly four months.

Offa’s Dyke Path Sensory Stories

I will commit to finishing my sensory stories  about Offa’s Dyke Path, though they may not be all complete by October 1. I may also combine two or three prompts into one story. Sometimes the wheels in my head turn faster than I can keep up with and then my mouth runs before I test the ideas that swirl around up there. Does that happen to you?
I really appreciate the positive feedback associated with these stories. I enjoy writing them and its fun to see where a little phrase can take my mind.

What I am Trying to Say

Painting every day in September is still my goal. However, I most likely won’t complete a painting each day. The subject matter is going to take a little detour, but I will revisit it soon. All of the submissions will be related to the southwest in one way or another, since the exhibits and contest are all in Southern Arizona. I plan to continue sharing my progress; that may look like an abbreviated post each day, but sharing the journey none the less.
Once the priorities are addressed, the Offa’s Dyke Path series will be continued…
Let me know what paths you’ve had a struggle rerouting, in the comments below or on Facebook. Also do you think September is an extra busy month? Always love hearing from you.
Why I Journal Using Sensory Prompts

Why I Journal Using Sensory Prompts - Sensory stories from Wales and #30in30paintingchallenge!I Journal Using Sensory Prompts

We love to travel, but I have a poor memory. I rely on photos, scrapbooks, and travel journals to save those memories. I like to tailor my travel journals to each trip, adding in journaling prompts, quotes, and date stamps. I usually include little envelopes for ticket stubs and paper placemats, etc. Somewhere along the way, I threw in a list of sensory prompts. Those short, little snippets bring back floods of memories to the whole family. We’ll get to talking about a trip and they’ll ask me to read off some of the lists. Sometimes the funniest and most memorable of these snippets are the “I smell…” pieces.
Olfaction, more than any other sense, is so successful at triggering emotions and memories. In fact, studies have shown thatthe olfactory system has a direct connection with two parts of the brain that are strongly linked in emotion and memory. Oddly enough, the sight, sound, and touch perceptions don’t pass through these two areas.
I failed to create a journal for this trip before we left. Luckily, I wrote out these sensory prompts on the plane ride home. It started with a handful and the more I jotted down the more memories and thoughts came back to me that wanted to be sure to remember.


Memories of the Countryside

I love to walk in the countryside. That peaceful, simple, and open space always reminds me being at my grandparents’ farms. Visiting the farms during my childhood always meant discovery and adventure. 
As an adult. I crave the solitude of more rural spaces, away from cars, and hustle and bustle. I especially love walking with no purpose other than to enjoy being outside.
Walking across Wales we encountered a couple of unmistakable scents of the countryside, namely, poop and silage. Since we walk through field after field, and literally through barnyards,there is so much poop! Of course being a gardener, I associate it with fertilizer and healthy plants. Round bails of hay are wrapped in black plastic to ferment the feed. These are stacked in huge rows and one can smell the fermentation before one can see the stacks.

The scent of Family History

Homes that have stood for centuries have a distinct scent. Dusty, musty and an unidentifiable unique smell of each family. We stayed in many homes along the way. One, in particular, had been in  the family 400 years. That means the books furniture and other family treasures, passed through the generations, had collected years of perfumes, cooking aromas, dust, tobacco, detergents, pets, various spills and who knows what all. 

Heavenly Butterfly Bushes

I mentioned before that I enjoy gardening. It was a hobby that came as somewhat of a surprise to me and my family. As a child, I hated to get dirty. I hated to sweat and I feared all the creepy crawly creatures in the vegetable plots my parents gardened. Somewhere along the way, I developed a deep connection with earth and the beauty it can provide. I discovered the joy of nurturing plants. 
One of the first plants that I ever planted was a butterfly bush.I encountered one in a friend’s garden. I was not so much interested in attracting butterflies; I loved the color and the heavenly scent. If you’re not familiar with the butterfly bush, it can grow quite rapidly! Soon it was taking over the garden but couldn’t bear to cut it back! I quickly learned it needed some space to flourish.
On our first trip to the UK I was completely taken aback at the mere size of the butterfly bushes. With so much unspoiled countryside they flourished indeed into tree-sized, gloriously scented giants, that reminded me of my first little garden in my first little house.

Deep Woods of Fantasy

The dampness and darkness of a woodland can create some very memorable smells. For me those smell remind me of days played in the woods behind our house. When it was safe for children to play outside, mostly unsupervised. We built things and discovered tiny creatures, played chase and hide and seek until sometime just before dark our moms would call us time for dinner. At night i’d fall asleep thinking of all the discoveries I’d made and what we would play tomorrow. Good Times.

#30in30paintingchallenge! Day #15 & #16 #30in30paintingchallenge! door-greeter

Please Share

I’d love to hear from you, share your olfactory story in the comment section. What’s the oddest scent that brings happy memories to your mind?